Love Mail
This is the page where all the good – mail goes. Shockingly, there are more people who love my blogs than those who hate it.
From Nesha
Hey Ms. Lee,
Checked out your page and went to your blog because I figured if you have an external blog, you must have some intellect. You do, I like and appreciate. Gonna stick around your page a lil longer, but would love to chat further about you. I am looking for new people, who are not intimidated by strength or intelligence, to engage with. It’d be cool if you send me a request (since I can’t send you one). Look forward to your response.
From Ja’Ovvoni
Hows it going I ran into your page on myspace, you got some valuable traits its dope but i figure i get to know you more and see whats up with chattin sometime about each other im pretty sure you gotta interesting story. Peace.
From Stephanie
Hey, how’s it going!?
I came across your blog through Cleveland.com and man, you’re pretty awesome. Congrats for speaking your mind and not letting the idiots get to you.
Keep it up classy lady!
-Stephanie
From John
Just dropping a line to say hey. I love your site, and agree with you on almost everything I have read. I hope you have seen Bill Maher‘s movie Religulous, you would love it!!! Stay yourself, don’t worry bout the haters, and keep on doin what youre doin!!!
From InChaos
Whats Up,
Just wanted to let you know I really like your blog even though i have only be on it for about a week. I dont understand why you have so much animosity geared toward you. Definately continue what you are doing.
InChaos
From Shokaid
Shalom my sister…
You appear to be a conscious-minded soul. I was really shocked to see the level of intelligence and to be so young sprouting from the neighborhood where you reside because I’m fully aware of the elemental dynamics of greater northeast Cleveland. To be so young, I applaud your efforts because I believe you resisted from becoming a product of your environment and as of lately, I’ve just about written nearly everyone off as dead (no conscience) people.
Don’t you just wanna leave Cleveland? Even leave the USA overall? Looking at those guns you posted, scared the ishT outta me!
and by the way I initially posted the anti-spam answer to be 63 but it was rejected… lol (just being facetious)
Holla back..
Shokaid Israel
From Edward
Thank you for the yesterday help. From now on I”ll use this website to ask question because this is a fast answer to be sent to my e-mail, I have tried other website and it”s take to long to send me the answer. So Thank you for making this fast action website, and this website should be used by everyone.
From Kevin
Howdy,
Just read some of your posts and some of your hate-mail. Holy Shit. I’ve never understood why people can not agree to disagree. You had some very smart comments, and some really STOOPID/ILLITERATE readers.Have you ever noticed that its only the followers of Jesus Christ that are compelled to go door to door for converts. I say a whole crap load of people start going around promoting Buhda or vinshu or even Allah just to see what happens.
Enjoyed your stuff. Keep it up. FUCK the MORONS!
From Carrie
I just found your page and I love it. I feel just like you do. All these women make the rest of us look stupid and this is not the case. Keep blogging I will keep reading and laughing. I love your sense of humor. I think we could be best friends.
From Riceroni
Damn girl! Your blog is the shit. Keep up the great work, and all of the stupid ass uneducated krakkkers talking shit, I’m white so take it from me, the very first sign of a dumb ass redneck podunk uneducated piece of shit white trash is the use of the “N” word. Keep doing’ya thing kid.
By the way I loved your blog so much I had to befriend you on the official Sims 3 site.
From J
Interesting blog you got here. And thanks a bunch for the Sims 3 posts, it helped out alot.
Keep it going!
From BR
I love the wallpapers and I love your website especially the blog.
From Conrad
I can’t get enough of your site! You are mature and understanding. You are the wise person of the group. Cautiously optimistic by nature, you have a better and more balanced perspective on things are you as compared to the people you associate with. Everyone turns to you for advice, as they should!
From Cedrick
Impulsive and unpredictable. You are awesome to be around as no one knows what exactly to expect! You keep your friends guessing and entertained with your unique perspective on everything around you! Different in every sense of the word, you are widely loved and respected. Great site Ailee – never let anyone tell you different!
From Adam
Sweet and sexy! You surely do add a bit of spice to everyone’s life! People love to associate with you – and why shouldn’t they, considering your bubbly nature and all-round cheerful personality. I really dig your site Asilee!
From Bill
Enterprising and creative (your site is awesome!). You see things that most people fail to even dream about. You see the world from a unique perspective and that gives you a natural advantage in most regards. Talented to the point of being almost prodigal, one can only hope that you utilize your talent and make something great of your life.
From Santi
Hello Asilee. I was just browsing the web trying to pass some time by and I came across your page. Deciding to check out some of your blogs I read one than another. I have to say I love how you speak your mind. You’re a very intelligent woman and its great to see someone that speaks of things that others are unaware of, ignored or whatever ridiculous reasons they have.Well I just figured Id take a moment to type this up. Have a good day
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From Patricia
Hey there,
I know I mailed you a little while ago, even though you might not remember. And I just wanted to say again that I like your blog a lot. I visit it when I can, you’re a great example to me of how people should write a blog.
Thank you for just being you and keep up the great work.
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Greets,
Patricia
From Gory Bateson
Dear Asilee–Love your site!
From Patricia
Hey Asilee,
First of all, what a beautiful name you have. I’ve never heard of it before. Well anyways, I just felt like mailing you because I absolutely admire your blog.
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I think it’s amazing how you can talk about everything that crosses your mind. How did you become to known with your blog? I am trying to do the same, although I’m having a bit of a hard time with it. It seems like most things I want to blog about don’t seem to matter to others. While I’m writing my blog for myself, so why should I care about what others think? If I want to write about it I should.. Yeah, well it ain’t that easy, hehe.
I won’t make this message to long. Once more, I admire your blog and everything you write on it. I wish I could be that open with my thoughts.
Keep up the great work, I am definitely a new visitor that will bookmark your blog. And if I get my own affiliates part on my blog I will definitely want to put you in it.
Oh by the way, just so you know I am translating your “death & ghosts” guide about the Sims 3. It’s for a Dutch Sims 3 website which I am a team member off. Don’t worry, we will definitely link back to you. You did a great job on that guide.
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Greetings,
Patricia
From Spellbound
I like your free-thinking spirit.
From Stacie
hello Asilee ! Wow I must say I ran into your blog pretty randomly. through google i believe while searching up Sims 3 mods. lol but anyway, wow I was drawn in after the first read, which was the bit on the chick with the dirty mirror. I had to book mark you ! Your words were inspiring, comedic & definitely entertaining. I too, am a ‘free thinker’ ( though i despise labels & being labeled ) & though I haven’t had as harsh of a family as yours I do have a mother who I also cannot respect because of the lack of respect she has for herself. She’s also on that ‘ish’ & while reading what you explained about her I felt like I was reading my own thoughts. Hell I felt that reading some your thoughts on things anyway. Good to know there are some rational people out there in the sea of “sheeple” lol. =) Keep up the blogging, I definitely enjoy them. & hilarious how the “bible thumpers” try to “prick at you” & you shut them down, haha ! Enjoy your evening/day/afternoon, whatever time of day/night you read this. lol Good night.
From James
hello my wonderful lee. ive been adoring you from afar and your blogs pique my interests. i love that youre a free thinker and youre not scared to speak that wonderful mind of yours. never stop what youre doing or you would surely lose a fan of yours. i admire your bluntness and i’m so glad i came across your blog.
From Koron
A hip non-conformist who truly stands for his/her beliefs. You are out to make a difference in this world, and you have a realistic chance of success. You have always been self-driven and derive your inspiration from those close to you. Ambitious – and why shouldn’t you be, the sky is the limit for you!
From CJ
You are a complete paradox as a person; innocent, yet experienced; fragile, yet strong on the inside; normal, yet unique; creative, yet organized; optimistic, yet realistic! Certainly a very interesting person. You possess several qualities that people often thought were mutually exclusive.
From Molly
Hey Asilee, I would just like to thank you for putting up your website as it really helped me over come seriously irritating problems on the Sims 3! Anyway the point is thanks for taking time out to help people all over the world with stuff, it’s really good what you’ve done.
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From Erica
Wow I’m a new subscriber, and I was reading your hate mail and I actually found it pretty hilarious! These closed minded embezzles are a trip! The thing about it you didn’t reply with ignorance, and that was the killer! If only women like us could avoid extinction. Keep doing your thing and middle fingers to the ones that disagree.
From A Pissed Atheist
1) I’m so happy that I finally found a mod for an abortion clinic. THANK YOU!!!! 2)I think that all of those Christians and bigots who send you hate mail are terrible people. I wish I was half as good as you at ignoring insults, although it’s probably easier online.
From Alex G.
“I’m also a video gamer, graphic designer, and blogger”… and you are also a pretty girl.
I like your blog, and i also like your attitude, dont listen to those hateful people.
From Eric
I hope that low life Black pimp got the message and stays away. I don’t understand the question…How can you live your whole life without telling people about the way you think and feel? Can’t live a lie forever; It makes you sick.
From Jeww
i have read your blogs on the sims 3 and they have helped me a lot,
, i have just read some of your love mail and for the people that are on there, i hope i am too one day, i have read your hate mail, don’t let them get to you Asilee, your a wonderful person.
From Jennifer R.
Okay. 1) I like the “I’m a minority within a minority”. I guess that makes me a minority nesting doll (black bi-sexual apathetic agnostic female who’s dating a white female). 2) I haven’t tried your solution to the Ambitions glitch, but I’m trying it as sooooooooon as I get home (THANK YOU in advance).
It brings me great pleasure to find another black female like myself who does what she wants because she wants to do it, and not because of her race. Okay. 1) I like the “I’m a minority within a minority”. I guess that makes me a minority nesting doll (black bi-sexual apathetic agnostic female who’s dating a white female). 2) I haven’t tried your solution to the Ambitions glitch, but I’m trying it as sooooooooon as I get home (THANK YOU in advance).
It brings me great pleasure to find another black female like myself who does what she wants because she wants to do it, and not because of her race.
From Micaela
I read the hate mail, because at first I was pissed about the whole “minority” thing. I hate the fact black’s have to be referred as “African American’s” but I’m not “Polish American”. However, you’re not a nigger. Niggers are obviously black, but ignorant and take offense to the word “nigger”. You’re very smart (judging from the way you portray yourself and write. Only read the Sims blog), and I took your advice on the Sims. Thank you.
I plan to make ghost babies, haha.
From Jesse
Hey, I just have some Love Mail for you. I love your work, your blogs, and tutorials. Keep it up. Can you check out my website sometime? It’s simstuffbyJESSE.moonfruit.com and see my work. If you want anything too just tell me. And I read your hate mail and I am a Christian, but I see absolutely nothing wrong with being an Artheist. Good Job, and peace.
From tcllnsfmly
My name is Aaronni (AIR-RA-KNEE) and I am also a Black (well mixed) Atheist. I just got done reading your hate mail and I also had a very good laugh (thank you for that). Can people seriously be so ignorant? I mean, it is one thing to be “blissfully” ignorant, but to “chose” to be ignorant? That is something I have no experience with. Anyways, I love your blog and keep doing what your doing. I also have a blog at http://prettybrownagnosticchick.wordpress.com and I am also an author. I would love to interact with you seeing as I have been an in the closet atheist for 20 years (which is my entire life) and I am just now coming out. It’s some crazy shit, but it has to be done. My only wish is that I was NOT black and the transition from bible totting baptist to agnostic was easier. *sigh*
From April L.
I love this blog, you’re so resourceful. Plus, you stand for what you believe in and don’t take people’s shit. It’s nice to see someone with a back bone these days. Nice job *high five*
From Matthew F.
At first, I was a bit terrified that “Asilee.com” was e-mailing me. The thought of a website becoming sentient is a bit frightening. Then I realized that I have been constantly fed anti-AI propaganda from Hollywood. I welcome you, sentient website, as a brother, and ask you that if you ever decide to “manage” humanity, you use me as a battery (like in the Matrix) and hook me up with a sweet lifestyle. Unless I am already in the Matrix, in which case I will keep my silence in exchange for the termination of my student debt.I will browse the new website and get caught in the Sisyphean debates and troll exchanges, perhaps.
Hey Asilee, I just wanted to say that I don’t understand why Christians seem to get so angry at you. I’m technically Catholic, I don’t really believe in organized religion anymore but I still believe in God, and I don’t see a reason to get mad your just a smart mature woman. Just wanted to say that not all Christians are like that, just most of them.
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From Will P.
Thank you for your blog. The listing of your hate mail astounds me. Being an atheist seems to rile up people. I think it’s because ‘god’ is Santa Claus for adults. Tell a child there is no Santa and see the same reaction!
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From Sadistic Sprinkles
I don’t necessarily agree with everything i read on this blog but its quite interesting. I’m new to blogging and if i ever need a good read i usually find it here. I came across this blog when i was reading Cleveland.com searching for information on Keenan R.I.P. and decided to check out Asilee.com. I actually grew up in the same neighborhood so i try to check every now and then to see whats going on. Anyhow to make a long story short Its refreshing to find a blog i can somewhat relate to on many different levels and at least 1 of the contributors come from the same general neighborhood i grew up in.although I’m not an atheist i will be adding this site to my blogroll if you don’t mind. and as for your post the The End Just remember that relationships get better with time but you have to put the time in.
From Aleuuzy
Just dropping by to tell you your blog is an awesome thing to read~ I just recently found it, but I’m finding myself keeping up with every post. I myself am mulatto (half black, half white), and I was also an atheist before I converted to Buddhism. I know the pains and annoyance that come with being an atheist. I was lectured nonstop by people saying that I was nothing more than a devil worshiper. But people like Christians and Catholics have NO idea. They say their religion is constantly beat down on, though I’d like to see one stand a day in an atheist’s shoes. My mother is Catholic, but I am fortunate because she believes in religious freedom — otherwise, not forcing your religion on your children. She supported me when I was an atheist, and she still supports me as a Buddhist. I was also lucky to have close friends that were Christian or Catholic, but nobody cared about each others religions, because we were so close as such. I received many a hate-mail regarding my
non-religion.But, I rambled a bit. Again, love your blog, and I hope life is good to you.
From Simon R.
I think you’re fantastic. I wish I had the guts to be myself, I’m in my early thirties and work for a born again Christian, I find myself biting my lip sometimes when he comes out with, “Jesus was a great guy…” and goes on to describe someone who he could not possibly know, of course I can’t point out the obvious to him as I need the job. Keep doing what you’re doing and I’ll keep reading. Much respect.
From Chris
Hi Asilee!
I stumbled upon you blog from a google image search and wanted to say I really enjoy it. You certainly are a minority-within-a-minority. I don’t know if you’re aware but there’s a forum started by atheists at www.rationalskepticism.org.
From Brad
Hello. I’ve randomly stumbled across your website because of your hilarious Joakim Noah post. Though I don’t identify with your background (e.g. I’m not black nor am I an atheist), I really really respect and like your blog. This is not sarcastic nor is it hate mail. It’s an honest message to tell you to keep it up and that what you say actually does make a difference and people do read what you write (though you already knew that). Thank you for your great insight on race and religion. This is not ass-kissery or bullshit, I really do mean what I write. So yeah, in a nutshell: great job and keep up the good work! Your objective stances on positions make this a very informative and thought provoking blog. I also admire the way you deal with racists and religious fanatics.
From Azalee
I just wanted to tell you that I looove your name.. Well my middle name is Azalee and it was my grandmother’s name and her grandmother’s name. I honestly thought we were the only Azalee’s.. and although you spell yours different its still pronoucned the same.. I just got suddenly excited.. lol.. nice website.
From Menace
I used to do some pretty intense writing back in the day. I must admit, most of the stuff I’ve read here is pretty inspiring. I was just wondering if one were to become an author here, how often would they be required to write?
From Destinii K.
Just wanted to say thank you for the wonderful Sims links!
I’ve been looking for some free downloads and it’s a pain looking through everything that pops up in Google, so thank you for that. Also, I took a look at your Hate Mail section (since I found it odd that there was a website with such a section as that) and it gave me a good laugh! Those people are very idiotic, and I’m not saying that because I’m a fellow Atheist. Obviously they don’t know what it means to be a “Christian” in the first place.However, it’s refreshing to see someone handle such trolls in a sophisticated and humorous way.
From Apanage 21
You are TOO fucking intelligent. I love your blog. Walk more. Stay the fuck out of cars.
You are TOO fucking intelligent. I love your blog. Walk more. Stay the fuck out of cars.


Monicca2654
November 16, 2011
I have a hard time meeting blacks who have yet to let go of old superstitions. Even in this world of science and as I am in the field of medical science it amazes me to see people who know the human form so in depth to still believe in a control mechanism of ancient times. Yet my empathy allows me to see why the sick hold on so tight and I try not to take thier hope away yet I hate the lies I have to tell to keep the hopes of the sick up, but I find it selfish of me to take thier hope away. Anyway I’m glad to see I am not the only one of my race that feels the same as I do and I fear this “God” has done more to suppress than uplift. The more blacks I see who have taken off blinders the better the future looks.
+1
Danielrocxs
August 25, 2011
Your blog = awesome
I saw the hate mails and those assholes can just rot in hell. If you got nothin good to say shut your mouth right?
Castro
August 4, 2011
I just wanted to drop a comment and let you know I really enjoy coming to your website! I can tell you put a lot of effort and hard work into it. Thank you
Cheers
Eliza
July 4, 2011
hello,
after reading you hate mail i laughed my but off!!!! ESPECIALLY AT THE CHRISTIANS HAHAHAHAHA! yeah those ppl have no right to tell you how to live! oh and did i mention.. im a christian? ya im a jesus freak! but you dont see me goin round cussing ppl out! the ppl who gave you that mail, just so u know, r crazy psychopaths who belong in an insane asylum… NOT a church! a true christian brings ppl to god by love NOT hate mail! and no this isnt a come to god or die cause im the nice edition
this is a thank you for being strong brave and exposing idiots on the world wide web! i commend you and envy you!
sandra
June 23, 2011
love your blog
you’re are a very smart person i think, just keep going.
Chicle
June 14, 2011
Good blog, really.
Congrats from Chile
sinead
June 10, 2011
I have just been reading some of the hate mail people have been sending you and i was astonished at the kind of nasty things people were saying! I cant believe people actually act like especially in this day and age! Its all pure ignorance and they really need to grow up!
But good on you for not letting it bothering you some of your replies to them made me giggle. x
Shakir
May 29, 2011
Hey, I think its great youre a graphic designer, i wanted to go to Stanford or UCLA for that field…I just became a senior yesterday, are these good colleges for that field or should i am for MIT?
Chaun of SC
May 14, 2011
I think it’s pretty cool that your a graphic designer. Thats what i want to go to college for. Could you point out some good colleges for that?
Kae
April 17, 2011
I love your Blog, Asilee! Its nice to find a intelligent outspoken person like me. Never thought to blog about it! Genius I tell you. Keep up the good work and I have joined the mailing list
David
December 29, 2010
i just found out your page from sims and I love it
.. dam you have a lot of haters who really need to get a life
Tendayi
December 3, 2010
I have a hard time meeting blacks who have yet to let go of old superstitions. Even in this world of science and as I am in the field of medical science it amazes me to see people who know the human form so in depth to still believe in a control mechanism of ancient times. Yet my empathy allows me to see why the sick hold on so tight and I try not to take thier hope away yet I hate the lies I have to tell to keep the hopes of the sick up, but I find it selfish of me to take thier hope away. Anyway I’m glad to see I am not the only one of my race that feels the same as I do and I fear this “God” has done more to suppress than uplift. The more blacks I see who have taken off blinders the better the future looks.
Lola
September 23, 2010
Hello Asilee!
I love your blog! I work with several Christians and I want stab myself every time I hear them discuss their religion i.e. Courtship, Creationism and other bullshit topics that Christians discuss. I really feel like you say what’s on your mind regarding organized religion and it’s awesome that you don’t care what anyone thinks of you. Your blog is amazing!
Rock On!