Category Archives: Black People
Things I find disturbing or interesting about my race. Well 12% of my race.
They Wouldn’t Bust a Grape in a Fruit Fight…
These are obviously birds...
So, today was an interesting day. Mind you, it didn’t get interesting until I was on my way home via RTA. I know you’re wondering who ‘they’ are and I’ll get to that. Let me just give you insight on how crowded these buses are. We have these subway train like buses now, they’re long and if you get in their lane, they’re loud. Well this long bus was packed to the point I could smell what the people next to me ate for lunch two days ago. I was standing and was on one side of the bus next to the door that doesn’t open because people were being let out on the other side of the bus. Well a few stops after I got on, these 4 and obviously naïve birds-erm “women” got on the bus. They’re loud as hell and it’s obvious they were about 18 or 19; with my eyes closed they were 10; if that. Either way, they knew better.
Cleveland RTA Buses
These birds [I really want to call them birds because they were clucking and bucking like those women on 'The View'], they were talking about anyone that they found visually annoying to them that got on the bus. Mind you, I’m RIGHT there next to them. It took all the life and energy I had left to not smack them into the next millennia with my PSP. Anyway, they take one look at me and just decide that today of all days to talk about me. I’m standing there with my balloon and gift bag I got from my family for my birthday and they looked at me up and down. I saw all of this out the corner of my eye. I continued being an adult, they continued to be the children that they are. I guess they weren’t getting the response they were expecting from me because I have on my PSP listening to music. So the chunky bird decide to yell out “Someone smells like cigarette smoke and it’s giving me a headache”. The other 3 start laughing at what she said. What does this have to do with me? Let me tell you. I was in a Jamaican spot that my grandmother told me to try. They had these really strong incense going and it was going to take 7 minutes for my fish dinner to get done [it was really good by the way]. So I left for 5 minutes and came back and they still weren’t done so I waited. What floored me was the fact they couldn’t decipher between cigarette smoke and incense. So I stood there and let the coonery continue.
As I got closer and closer to my destination, my will to keep being an upstanding citizen was being tried forcefully. One of the chicks told one of the bald-headed birds to “smell” me. Really? You gone jump off a cliff into some jagged rocks if she tell you to? She already got you out on a perch tweeting. So they continue to act a fool and so when my stop came, I purposely bumped into them, and at the same time I cut my volume down on my PSP and walked off the bus, they didn’t say a damn word.
My point of this blog is, women like the ones I ran into on the bus; alone they’re quiet as church mice; wouldn’t bust a grape in a fruit fight, but in a group they’re the loudest New York rats on the corner. These type of women run in cliques because they wouldn’t survive alone. They have to go along with what everyone is doing and saying because they don’t have a mind of their own. They could be best friends and hate each other; despise each other even. People like that don’t live long but they got their heads shoved so far up their asses they won’t even notice when karma makes a visit. It’s too much like right for my kind to be civilized to each other. It’s pretty much taboo. I’m sure one day, they’re going to get on that RTA bus talking foolishly, and someone is going to take notice to them talking about people and they’re going to turn them every which way but loose.
What I notice about one of these chicks was she was staring at me and I could feel her staring at me, then she took it a step further and start rolling her neck at me, I turn and look at her, stare her and her friends down and she looks away. Listen, you were deprived from the attention you so desperately wanted as a child, don’t get your ass mopped up and down this bus. I might be doing the bus a favor because it was filthy. I’m 24 today, the younger me wouldn’t have gave a shit about no “Transit Police carting me off their bus into the back of their car. Nor would I had cared if the birds jumped me, I was going to tag one of them. I’m too old for that kind of crap. I have a son and a husband now, I have to set an example. Violence isn’t the answer, especially since they didn’t touch me. If they would have though…
So the conclusion to this blog is, chicks [yes I'm still referring to birds], in groups aren’t the same alone. The main ones that got so much to say about someone is branching out from their insecurities. One day they’ll grow up, but that will be asking for too much. All I can do is shake my head and keep it moving. Their words won’t be paying my rent, or clothing my son.
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Leave the Burning House: A Letter to Single Black Women
If you woke up in the middle of the night, choking to the smell of smoke, and opened your eyes only to see that your curtains, walls, ceiling and dressing table were engulfed in fiery, white hot flame — as your lungs burned as you gasped for air — what would you do?
What if your partner who was lying in bed with you looked you straight in your face and said: “What flames? What smoke? The problem is not that bad. Go back to sleep.” … all the while you clearly smell your hair getting singed by the overwhelming heat of the tongues of flames that were disintegrating your headboard… What would you do?
If your mama called you on the phone and was saying, “It’s all your fault. You should have turned that space heater off like I told you to. You made your bed, now lie in it!” while you watched the flames creeping up your bed linens, what would you do?
If the television (now smoking, flickering on and off, and throwing sparks of electricity) had the latest “expert” on, teaching that someone in your position should take that half-drunk glass of water on the bedside table and try to put the house fire out with it… what would you do?
If every self-help book on your shelf told you to feel free to play with the fire, enjoy the fire – but just protect yourself by wearing flame-retardant nightgowns in the process… what would you do?
If the entire world stood outside your window and told you to sit tight and be strong while your pajamas ignited with white and blue-hot flames, while you watched in horror as your skin began to melt like chocolate ice cream on a blistering hot Florida day… what would you do?
You would do what any sane, self-preserving person would do:
YOU WOULD LEAVE THE DAMN BURNING HOUSE!
And yet – maybe you wouldn’t.
Black women all across this country are in a situation that is every bit as dire and urgent as trying to live in a burning house, but we allow ourselves to be consumed and destroyed by it on a regular basis.
We aren’t crazy. We are naïve. We aren’t stupid. We are incredulous: we simply cannot process the incredible, unfathomable, mind-blowing reality that the entire world is lying to us about what we are seeing and experiencing. It’s too mentally overwhelming to face the awesome, hideous, truth: we are headed for annihilation and the world is enjoying the show.
Mothers and daughters, sisters and aunts – black women of every hue and shade, are being relegated to ‘untouchable’ status – slated to become complete social pariahs, presented as the ugly, unlovable, jealous, bitter step sisters to the gleaming white Cinderellas of other races – and as a result, black women are the most un-partnered, the most abandoned, the most violently oppressed demographic on earth.
Yet if you howl in pain from the consuming fire, even other black women will tell you to shut up. No, you aren’t seeing things. You are being lied to by the entire world.
Black women – you must understand that in order to live, you must stop asking for permission to survive, because consent will not be given. You must take your survival by force.
You are not alone. You are not crazy. You are in a burning house and the lack of oxygen has previously clouded your judgment. Your only hope for survival is to ignore what everyone else is saying, and GET OUT.
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Why must Blacks conform to the whites way of life in order to be considered successful?
You hear all these people talking bout black people don’t know how to spend money. How we ‘waste’ money on certain things. I was watching ‘I think I Love My Wife‘ and they was saying “spending money on spinning rims, you would think Steven Spielberg has spinning rims”. Just because white people don’t put money into rims, and expensive cars, does that make it wrong or something? Why is ‘making it’ equivalent to living like white people? Apparently ‘street dreams‘ are considered ignorant just because a young black male wants to be a basketball player football player or some sort of entertainer, why is that wrong? In a sense it is wrong because most if not all have that ‘get-rich-quick mentality and very seldom it works out how they play it out in their heads. Anyway, why is it considered right only if he wants a ‘safe’ career?
since when has individuality and ‘the sky is the limit ambitions’ flew out the window? Why must we conform to the whites way of life in order to be considered successful?
Is it because they don’t expect much from us besides what they see on BET? Not only is that foolish but simple-minded. I seen some white guy with a Volkswagen Beetle yesterday with huge 22″ rims on it and sounds that should of been in a bigger car. He is pretty much living what other whites besides him would call ‘a wasted lifestyle’. I’m sure his peers probably think because he didn’t have to sell drugs or rap to get those things, he’s considered successful. That’s bullshit. Destroying your car with concrete cracking sub-woofers and putting abnormally large rims on a tiny ass car isn’t successful, it’s absurd. If anything, I feel sorry for the car. What I’m pretty much saying is, how can the average black guy’s lifestyle be wrong to anyone who isn’t black but when they do it, it isn’t?
I’m not on the fence here. Wasting money no matter who does it is pretty stupid. You can be black and have chrome rims and sounds that can stop a heartbeat or white and I would look at you the same way. Except one is actually a nigga and the other one is trying to be one; and pretty much achieving that feat. The only other difference in that is, one will get pulled over, and the other one won’t.
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The Difference Between Being Black & Being a Nigga
I’m going to just get right to it, this blog don’t need an introduction. Oh but wait let me me define nigga for you naive imbeciles. A nigga/coon is basically an ignorant Black individual hell-bent on being no more than a statistic.
Being Black:
Empowerment and Self-determination is what differs from a Nigga/coon! White folks so used to telling us who we are, labeling us like property for hundreds of years, just can’t seem to wrap their brain around that concept. Black people have risen over the years of oppression – have gotten on their feet refusing to fall again. Refuse to be labeled as a nigger – so they go out and do something about it, they go to school; educate themselves. They look to BET to get their comical relief but not to take what that channel depicts what Black people would prefer as entertainment at face value.
They work hard for what they want and get exactly what they deserve.
Contrary to what many may think, there is a difference between Black
people and nigga’s.
Black people spend thousands of dollars on higher education and seethe value of owning real estate.
Nigga’s spend thousands of dollars on getting high and are concerned only with keepin’ it real.When Black people have children, they try to get better paying jobs to make sure they can support their child.
When nigga’s have children, they change jobs to avoid paying child support.
Black people appreciate you being helpful.
Nigga’s think that they can keep using you without appreciating your kindness and they even look at your kindness as weakness.
Black people raise their children and spend quality time with them.
Nigga’s don’t know what they should do for their kids.
When Black people have children, they invest in college plans, piano lessons and braces.
When nigga’s have children they invest in designer clothes, platinum jewelry and mini-Air JordansBlack people watch out for their neighbors and understand the importance of strong neighborhoods.
Nigga’s watch their neighbors, and look for an opportunity to take advantage of their weaknesses.Black people appreciate the sacrifices made for them by, their families to help them get ahead in life.
Nigga’s will sacrifice their Families and steal from them in order to get their next high.
Black people work hard to improve themselves.
Nigga’s are happy with what they can get by being who they are.
Black people work through their problems with each other and come to an understanding.
Nigga’s get upset at a little misunderstanding and stay mad for 20 years.
Black people try to manage their money and work out a plan for the future.
Nigga’s live day by day and let their money manage them.
Black people are beautiful.
Nigga’s act ugly.
Black people appreciate expensive jewelry designer clothes and nice cars but realize that they don’t make the person…
Nigga’s define themselves by their designer clothes platinum jewelry and nice cars.Black people shoot cameras at social events
Nigga’s shoot guns at social events
Black people will know the people at their local bank branch by first name.
Nigga’s will know the people at the neighborhood check cashiers and liquor store by first name.Black people see hard working brothers and sisters with legitimate jobs as potential mates.
Nigga’s won’t even look at you if you’re not a hustler, baller or a bad ass bitch.Black people read books, newspapers, novels, articles to gain knowledge.
Nigga don’t read and prefer to be misinformed by the television
Black people will work hard to be innovative or to build something out of nothing.
Nigga’s will work hard at getting something for nothing.Black people will read this and be sort of sad.
Nigga’s will read this and be mad.
Black people work hard all week and then go out on the weekend to relax and chill at the few Black night spots we have.
Nigga’s relax and chill all week and then go out on the weekends and work hard to mess up the few Black night spots we have.In the words of Chris Rock, “I love Black people… but I can’t stand nigga’s!!
Let’s re-evaluate this so-called concept of ‘keeping it real’ shall we? Doesn’t necessarily have a positive connotation does it?
Being a Nigga:
That poem above me basically described the difference between the two but I would like to add more to it. Nigga’s are blinded by the media and only want to become rappers so they can avoid getting an education and work. They rather try to get rich quick and end up falling back on nothing but their ass. They rather bring the next nigga down although the next nigga is in no better if not worse of a predicament than them. Nigga’s want what you got so they’ll rob you blind after they just smile in your face for a few weeks. They rather have loud cars and outrageous sounds and rims. They rather stay in the hood and lay down with all the hood-rats they can but don’t want to face the consequences of having unprotected sex. They fear change and would rather stay weak-minded and continue to be a coon. Nigga’s will listen to Lil’ Wayne, Plies, Gucci Mane and try their damnedest to apply it to their everyday lives. They think listening to their coon tunes make them a thug. It just makes them apart of the problem. It makes them naive.
Lil’ Wayne is a nigga. Denzel Washington is Black.
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Never mind Lil’ Wayne…
What on earth is this?
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I just realized that there are rappers out there far, far, far much worse than Lil Wayne, Gucci Mane, and Plies alike. I’m seriously hoping that this is just a parody because there is no way in hell this chick managed to get a record deal. WorldStarHipHop sure do know how to find these smuts.
I feel sorry for the fat chick, her feet has got to be hurting, the bitch can barely move in them. Not only do I feel sorry for the fat chick, I feel sorry for Matthew Hoyos which in fact needs to be shot execution style for having the gall to produce this crap.
So I’m guessing this is what Hip-Hop and Rap turned out to? I mind as well get me a record deal my damn self, seems the ‘get-rich-quick’ scheme is all in favor to anyone who feel the need to. Although I would be uncomfortable with the whole idea. I’d feel more comfortable knowing when and if I fall, it won’t be on my ass; it’ll be on a backup plan. Well whatever floats the well enough sinking mainstream media boat.
Controversial Abortion Billboards are True, NOT Racist…
I’m not trying to be an ass here but if the shoe fits…
It affects me. It affects you. It affects us. Abortion is not just a women’s issue. It is a human issue. And today, for African-Americans, it is a human crisis. Nearly 40% of all black pregnancies end in induced abortion. That’s over 3x the rate of white women and 2x the rate of all other races combined. There are beautiful alternatives: adoption and parenthood, but they are not money-makers for abortionists. -TooManyAborted.com
I’m still trying to figure out how people are finding these billboards racist. How are the billboards ‘targeted’ at the Black community if its based on facts and not bigotry? Besides that, the fact that these are kids making kids due to the lack of caring parents, safe sex practices, and sex education is probably the main cause to all of these abortions. It may sound and seem far-fetched but its not that much of a stretch.
On the site it says, “Men need to step up and own up to their responsibility as fathers. Period”. That is true if some if not most of them were men. Its again children having children. I’ve walked up and down the old neighborhood I used to live in and all I saw was pregnant teenagers or teenagers lugging two kids around; one for each hip. I’m not saying that all the abortions of the black percentage is from teenagers but I’m sure they make up a large amount of that percentage.
To keep their social lives intact they rather exterminate the pregnancy instead of carrying the child for 9 months and giving the baby up for adoption. Teens don’t think logically; they’re teens.
I can agree if you lay down to have a kid you should stand up to be parents. What if these kids are pressured into getting an abortion? If I had a dime for every time I heard, “my boyfriend suggested I get an abortion, and I agree” I would be filthy stinking rich. Some of these women don’t have the resources or a stable enough life to carry children but what can we do about it? Abortions are legal in the U.S.; so what exactly are we as Americans are doing to stop it?
When you look at these charts, can you honestly believe that those billboards are racist? Instead of facing the facts, most like to hide behind that racism wall and point the finger. Denial is a dangerous and often times lethal emotion.
Statistically, for every 1.3 live births in the black community, 1 child is aborted.
The stats are crazy and honestly its only going to get worse. These women and teens are going to keep taking the ‘easy way out’ even if they have to do it themselves. Yes, lets not talk about those type of abortions. Lets not get on the women and teens who actually carry the child for 9 months just to throw it in the garbage because they couldn’t afford an abortion and or they were too young to get it themselves which would result in parental consent.
Really, how many is too many? Is it too many because Blacks are minorities or is it too many because its just too many? Is this some conspiracy of ‘controlled population’? Shockingly, that has been argued and not just amongst Blacks.
Today, abortion kills more Blacks, per year, than heart disease, cancer, respiratory disease, accidents, homicides, suicide, and cancer–combined.
If anyone can explain to me thoroughly and logically how these billboards are racist; feel free. I’m done.
-Chris
AK-47′s and Jealousy
This is far beyond teen angst when adults get involved. I just read the most horrifying story here about two adults and two teenagers and how two teens were fighting on Myspace over a boy because the boy liked one of the girls and the other girl got jealous. It lead to adults going over the girls house with pistols and AK-47‘s and shooting houses up…over a god damn boy! Of course someone was hurt, the girl got shot in the ear.
This is what society has came to? Children fighting over a boy online and the supposedly ‘role-models’ escalate it with AK-47′s and pistols? Now all four of those coons will spend the rest of their time in jail because of Myspace. So far the police has found 19 AK-47 assault rifle rounds throughout the neighborhood and I’m sure they’ll find more.
This was an argument between teens, how the hell did adults get involved? That’s not the point, who allows someone to purchase an AK-47 in Cleveland, Ohio? I thought there was a ban on those here but then again, there’s a ban on a lot of things but that doesn’t stop people.
You know it would be typical of me to blame all of this on technology but then I’ll just be insulting my logic. Myspace has nothing to do with why these adults went out their way over a puppy lover’s spat between three teenagers. I guess some adults never know when to grow up until they get a sentence thrown at them.
You’re not a ’5-Star Chick/Bitch’ because Yo Gotti said so
I know your self-esteem and or confidence needs a little boost but damn people! Give that tired, stupid ass song a break for Pete’s sake. Just because Yo Gotti came out with that song and you like it, doesn’t mean you have to blindly believe because of the song, you’re 5-stars. You shouldn’t need an excuse to stiffen your self-esteem. You should be confident in yourself; by yourself. What the fuck exactly is a ’5-star chick/bitch’ any damn way? She’s in the shape of 5 fucking stars?
What baffles me is that women would demean themselves all for the sake of music. Why call yourself a bitch? Does that make you feel better doing the very thing men do comfortably? Its rappers like Yo Gotti, Gucci Mane, and Lil’ Wayne that disgusts me. They’re turning these ‘women’ and teens into sheep. That goes for the male population as well.
Someone on Myspace earlier messaged me asking me could I be his ’5-star bitch’ for Christmas. I carry myself in a respectful manner, I don’t have provocative photos on my page, I don’t disrespect myself just to fit in either. I’m my own follower. So I’m just assuming the clown was oblivious to that. I gave him a peace of my mind and went on about my business. That’s what basically triggered me to make this blog. It threw me for a loop because, it’s either a front because he’s online or he’s been brainwashed by the media. Either way he’s a jackass and he’ll see one day that that’s no way to act towards people whether its online or off…especially off.
Ladies [I shouldn't even call you that] find your own self-esteem, its there inside of you some where. You don’t have to get in where you fit in all because of the media or your peers. All you’re doing is showing these boys out here that its okay for all women to be treated like the very bitches the lot of you are calling yourselves. Its not okay to disrespect yourself and the sooner you realize that, the better.
Anyway, I fear for the future and its very clear that its going to get pretty worse way before it gets better. Just thinking about it is making me sick to my stomach.
On another note…
What the fuck was this dumb bitch thinking? So many things are running through my head right now:
- When she gets old that’s going to look disgusting when she hits 50.
- Songs get played out faster than Lil’ Wayne dropping another tired ass mixtape.
- She’s a fucking sheep and took the song too literally.
- Its poorly done.
- She’s taking the hood-rat era to a whole new level.
- I’m surprised she didn’t put Yo Gotti’s face some where…or has she?
- She labeled herself a 5-star chick so she can convince herself that she is but anyone with common sense would know she’s a damn fool.
- I shouldn’t even care what she does with her body but this shit has got to stop.
- I’m surprised she didn’t get it to say ’5-star bitch’. Its all the rave in the streets for females to call themselves bitches these day’s like its going out of style.
- She must have a television with her 24/7 or she’s a naive little cunt that’s media driven.
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You’re not Nikki Minaj or Barbie so STOP thinking you are
Halloween is Oct 31, not Jan 1st through December 31st. I’m sorry to say this but no matter how many tracks or pink extensions you put in your hair or how many fake diamond necklaces that spell out barbie you get, you’ll never be Nikki Minaj or Barbie. One is trying to be like Lil’ Wayne and the other you can find at your local Wal-Mart. It must suck to look back at yourself when and if that time ever come and see how stupid you look trying to be someone else. I can honestly say its much easier to just be yourself. You females who drool and idolize your ‘role-models’ got it down to a Science.
Barbie is made of plastic and I believe she’s what 50 years old now? The damn doll was manufactured in 1959 and the African American barbie was manufactured in 1967. Why must you stupid females think being a 42-50 year old plastic doll is something to be happy about?
From my understanding, Minaj was/is a carpet muncher and she enjoyed dressing like a man. Her ‘music’ is garbage and the only people who find her appealing or ‘sexy’ is men with no type of taste in women. Yea she might have more things to offer away from a mic but when she’s on the mic, I rather listen to Gucci Mane and he’s horrible as well. She may not be facially challenged but lyrically, she’s a white helmet away from riding the short yellow bus. Call it hate, jealousy, envy, whatever your pea-size brain can muster but I won’t be losing sleep at night. This was just the spur of the moment blog. I just wish these Minaj and Barbie wannabe’s were a spur of the moment.
But I guess to each its own. If I was a sheep I would choose Barbie as my shepherd because I’ll be DAMN if I follow someone who don’t have shit to offer but ‘looks’ and a ‘body’ as some people put it.
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Newsone Need to Get Their Shit Together…WTF does this photo have anything to do with Chris Henry’s Funeral?
I was on Newsone today and I was just skimming the front page for something to read so I decided to click on this article here [hopefully they've changed picture #4 by now] and I skimmed through the pictures of Chris Henry’s funeral and I get to picture # 4 and its a picture of Elephant Man, Chris Brown and some ugly ass fat chick. See for yourself:
I found this quite unprofessional. How did they managed to get that picture of such atrocities mixed up with funeral photo’s I’ll never know. This is a classic case of WTF?! Honestly Newsone, get your shit together. Whoever you got publishing these articles need to be fired ASAP!!
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Going Lesbian isn’t Going to Mend Your Bitter Heart
Not only are you women who decide to go Lesbian/Bi-sexual because some man broke your heart impostors but you’re stupid as well. Running into a woman‘s arm because you’re probably the reason why he left you isn’t going to make you feel better to the least. You’re being laughed at heterosexual and homosexual women alike.
If you aren’t naturally attracted to females you’re a hoax, an idiot if you will. It pisses me off for a female to tell me that they’re trying females out because some man cheated on them with her best friend. Honestly, check the company you keep don’t go running to a chick like things will get better. Women cheat as well and they are in fact more conniving and drama driven; I should know, majority of my family are females.
You’re really stupid telling someone you’re bitter towards all men because of one fuck-up. If you think you’re getting back at all men because of one fuck-up by going Lesbian then you’re pathetic. Go ahead and try to convince yourself that a woman is what you want and you’ll be sadly mistaken.
The hypocrisy of it all is getting a lesbian that dresses and act like a dude. I honestly had to laugh at that. Getting a woman that wants to be a man isn’t doing anything for your self-esteem. You’re not being true to yourself getting yourself involved in something that you have no experience in all because of some man kicked you in the twat. I’ll never understand why a woman would go from straight to lesbian in 2.2 nano seconds because of a man. Remember what you’re getting yourself into; they bleed once/twice a month just like you do. Unless they went that far and got a sex change; then again, is that even possible yet?
Its a bunch of hypocritical shit going on with lesbianism. Especially those that get sex changes. Its not those that get the sex changes its the ones that fancy themselves with someone who has gotten a sex change. My point is, why leave a real dick for a fake one? It goes in the same hole(s). Okay I’m done, I’m getting sick to my stomach.
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Oh I’m a “hater” because I don’t like the same shit YOU like?
Am I supposed to be like every other naive imbecile with these invisible haters and say, “Oh since they’re hatin’ on me because they think I’m hatin’ on them, that must mean I’m famous”? No, I’m not. Which is the reason why I get so many people butt hurt about my opinion. Because they can’t grab the concept that maybe, just maybe people have their own opinion and because its not the same as theirs, its not considered hating.
That’s too much like right for people to think logically. If you don’t like lets say Gucci Mane and you tell someone you don’t and you give them what you think are good reasons to why; well they go crazy and start calling you a hater and everything else under the sun because you don’t like Gucci Mane and they do. There’s no “I respect your opinion” its just “bytch you jus hatin cuz he got money“. While I’m on that, what does someone’s income got anything to do to why people such as rappers aren’t lyrically impressive to me? They could all be as rich as Bill Gates but its not going to change how I feel about what they’re selling. Furthermore, why would I want their money or want to be like them when I can have my own money and do what I want to do in life? I apologize if I don’t want to follow what people call their “role-models” to the point where I start making irrational decisions and begin to act and talk like said “role-model“.
From consoles to flowers, from food to actors you can’t have your own opinion, feelings, thoughts about anything without that one idiot saying you’re “hatin”. I often ask what said “hate-e” would define “hater”. Its basically someone whose opinion isn’t the same as everyone else. Hell, I could say I’m allergic to fake metals, meaning I can’t wear fake jewelery because it would break me out within seconds and someone would call me hater. In-fact, I believe something close to that happened to me when I went over my grandmother’s house and my naive, incompetent sister was there. How am I hater because I don’t want to look like a walking rash? People stretch that word so far it doesn’t look like a word any more it looks like it has its own country.
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Skinny Jeans and the Men Who Wear Them
Some will argue that men who wear skinny jeans are considered gay all based on the fact that people assume that in actuality, all gay men wear skinny jeans. So if someone who doesn’t wear them walk past two men wearing skinny jeans and that person know at least one them are gay, you catch my drift; its going to lead to the assumption that the other person is gay. All gay men don’t wear skinny jeans duh; that’s not the point. The fact that I can go into a mens store and vise versa now and pick out my jeans is weird. Not saying that I do its just, in my opinion skinny jeans aren’t something that belong on a man. Fitted yes, skin-tight, boot-cut jeans no.
What boggles me is the fact that there are a lot of men out there who find those who wear them to be gay just on that alone. They don’t even have to know the person, they just know that if they’re wearing jeans that a woman would wear then they are gay. I don’t understand why men should worry about what another man is wearing honestly. If they don’t wear them then they shouldn’t care but whatever.
There was something on the news about a school in Texas banning skinny jeans from being worn in school. I had this thought that maybe people just find it uncomfortable that men are basically wearing clothes people are used to seeing on just women. I can understand that because if I were to date someone who wore them [which I won't] and I go and do the laundry, I wouldn’t know who’s jeans is whose. Then there’s the occasion that we might end up in a clothing store fighting over the last pair of skinny jeans. I’m getting sick to my stomach just thinking about it.
Some can argue that this all started in the media [Kanye West] and people are just doing what they see instead of doing their own thing. Maybe, just maybe men are trying to embrace the femininity by wearing skinny jeans. Some are just going too far with the trend that their sexuality becomes awful blurry. I sometimes have to stop and ask myself is this guy gay or straight? It shouldn’t matter to me but if you approach me and ask me for my number and you’re wearing skinny jeans; I don’t know what your motive is. It could be so we can go shopping together or go to the movies; play video games, or …go shopping.
Is this really a trend or just an excuse for men to show their true colors? Once considered “hardcore” rappers are proudly wearing nut-hugging pants that would give any woman a yeast infection. Don’t you dare ask him if he’s gay let alone allow someone who is gay walk up to him and cordially invite him to join a gay bar with him on occasions. Not only that, they’re leaving nothing to be desired to said homo; they’re sagging skinny their jeans. If that isn’t a sign that says, “surprise buttsex” I don’t know what does. You straight men who wear these skinny jeans have the nerve to sag them like they’re baggy jeans. I would say those that do this have some big balls but obviously not.
Honestly, how do you maneuver in those jeans without having to shift your balls around every 5 minutes? Don’t your nuts need to breathe? The first thing that comes to mind when I see a male in skin-tight skinny jeans is in..fer..til..ity.
Doesn’t it bother you that metro-sexuality and homosexuality is being band together with heterosexuality? Don’t your sexuality as a man feel compromised? Shouldn’t it piss you off that these skinny jeans are raising a lot of questions about who or what you are?
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List of Rappers/Singers Worth Mentioning
Me a few of my friends and admins decided to come together with this list of rappers and singers that are underrated, slept on, greater than and or deserve more recognition than Lil’ Wayne, Gucci Mane and Plies. Some you may know and some you may not. I don’t know how much I can stress this but, if you don’t agree then congrats, you’re not a sheep…but if you don’t agree and you get upset then an even bigger congratulations is in order, you’re a chump. Lets just all agree to disagree if it comes down to that shall we?
Singers
She just came out with this new song recently called ‘Try Sleeping with a Broken Heart’ and I will have to say that its one of her best. She’s beautiful, talented, unique. I would love to meet her one day so she can give me piano lessons. -Natasha
What can I say besides that he’s one of the best to had ever lived? His music is what you play at weddings or when you want to get close to someone. Trey Songz or anyone else can hold a candle to Luther. He sung his heart out in his songs and he didn’t have to get very provocative to do so. RIP Luther you will be missed. -Goodwin
Jay Sean:
Not a lot of people have even heard of him but they should. His music is great. So if you want something new [its old to me] to listen to, just do a search for him and you’ll some music you’ll like. -Collin
Avant:
I loved him ever since ‘Private Room‘ and I’m sure there are a lot of others that can agree with me or probably love all of his music. I would listen to him before I listen to Trey Songz. He’s over rated and he doesn’t sing….he whines and cries like a little baby. -Heff
Ginuwine:
When he came out with “Differences” that’s what made me a fan of Ginuwine. He knows how to swoon the ladies not try and see how fast he can make you say his name. ‘Love You More’ is another one of my favorites, I can listen to that one track for the rest of my life. Trey Songz or anyone of this year has came out with an R&B album that I can listen to without switching through the songs. Bring the old R&B back because its long overdue. -Sasha
Marques Houston:
I’ve been a fan of this sexy ass man since IMX but I really fell in love with him when he decided to go solo. ‘All Because of You’ is still one of my favorite songs by him to this day. He’s another underrated artist that no one really pays attention to although his recent album wasn’t all too great I will continue to be a dedicated fan of his because he’s one of the greatest. -Smiley
Maxwell:
My goodness this man right chea is smexy! Inside and out! I would love to meet this wonderful man one day. I used to listen to his wonderful melodies every night before I go to bed. His voice alone put me to a sounding sleep. He’s original, special, handsome, and underrated. -Ashley
She’s so underrated that I’m absolutely upset about it. People are so blinded and deaf by this garbage that has been in the music industry for years now that they can’t even remember or recognize the real true beauty of R&B and Jill Scott is one of R&B’s beauties. Her music makes me feel so good on the inside. She’s classy, remarkable, sexy and under-rated. -Deezy
Two words…slow…and down. That beat alone have me at ease. I have the instrumental and I can listen to that alone for hours and hours. That song is one of his best besides ‘My Angel’. He have a lot of bangers under his belt and I can relate and stomach every last one. I play Bobby Valentino when I want to get my girl in the mood; not no Plies or Trey Songs who sound like he need learn how to sing. Plies voice is enough to make me sick. -Carlos
Mary J. Blige:
There’s not much I can say about Mary J. Blige that hasn’t already been said that she’s a wonderful singer and we need more like her as role-models of today. Nikki Minaj is a poor misrepresentation of what a real woman is. Her alone let alone the rest of today’s trash is enough to kill me over 50 times or more. I would love to travel back to where the real music was. -MusicLover
Aijuswanaseing is infact one of his best albums. Its still fresh and people still enjoy listening to his music. I just wish he would of kept it fresh with his latest album but I guess you have to change with the world and I’m sorry that its not for the best. All in all Musiq Soulchild is one of the best. You don’t have to win pointless awards to recognize that. -Adam
I’m lucky to be alive in this generation to know what true talent is. Its people like Robin and others like him who make you know for a fact what’s good and what’s bad with music. I’m glad that I was reminded that all hope isn’t lost for the art of music and I thank Robin for that. -Michael
I could go on forever but I think you catch my drift. Notice I didn’t list Trey Songz, Beyonce, Rihanna and a few others that people think I should of listed. Why? Because in my opinion they are overrated. Yes Beyonce got some good songs and she do for the kids but so what? I hear more about her than I would like to. Same thing with Trey Songz, people no…women are going nuts because of his latest video/song called ‘I invented Sex’. Now everyone wants a man to do that to them. Not only that, men are driven to do what Trey Songz can do if not better. Bunch of sheep if you ask me.
Rappers
Besides his name being funny, don’t let that fool you. His music is great and my favorite song by him is ‘Come Close’ with Mary J. Blige. I can listen to that song forever. Instead of him degrading women he’s loving them in his lyrics. I would have to say; he disappointed me with his new album, ‘Universal Mind Control‘. That was not his best. He made up for it with is acting and his knack for writing. -Karla
He is one of the most critically, if not commercially, successful rappers in Hip hop music. Enough said. Not only that, I can relate to his music without getting annoyed that its about the same damn shit that these other rappers of today is shitting out. -Alex
All I had to do was listen to one of his albums [Food & Liquor] and I was hooked. His lyrical talent is far beyond of Lil’ Wayne’s and a lot others. He barely get recognized because the lack of understanding of his point of view. Not a lot of people can get into depth in their songs like he can. His lyrics actually have meaning to them and he’s not disrespecting women every other verse and every other song. I can listen to all of his albums and not grow tired of them. -Chris
Chamillionaire:
I think he’s the only rapper out there that can make a whole album without having to use such vulgar language and for that I commend him and thus why he’s one of my favorite rappers. -Sarah
Andre 3000:
He’s one of the most underrated rappers out there. I believe Andre 3000 will can chew up Lil’ Wayne and Gucci Mane with one verse if he wanted to. -Cedrick
Big L:
Let me just say RIP Big L. He was one of the greatest of my time. He was all I listened to back then. Now when I look at today’s music; it makes me weep for the future. We got a bunch of wannabe’s out here spitting out straight garbage. Its all the same crap on a different beat. -TheRealestMusician
Nas:
He know how to stick it where it hurts. He’s one of the best thus far in the rap industry. What I love about Nas is, he speak truth and he don’t back down from it. He raps how he see and he did that in his album hip-hop is dead. It really is and I think it needs more than just a defibrillator to bring it back. -James
Big Pun:
Wow, if he wasn’t dead. He would take the rap game by storm. People wouldn’t know what a Lil’ Wayne or a Boosie was. Hell I don’t know what a Boosie is now…he sounds like a cracked out Trina. -TinyTim
Pharrell:
Besides his group N.E.R.D when he’s collaborating with another artists; he makes the song sound great. I love him as a rapper and even more as a singer. He’s an all around guy. I wonder how his acting is…I know I would see every last movie with him in it. -BillyJeane
Although that recent stunt he pulled almost cause me not to respect him any more as a person but I can’t respect or disrespect someone I don’t know personally. Nevertheless, Kanye West music is hot, its spicy and its different. His video’s are interesting and cool. How many rappers albums out there who aren’t constantly bashing women or talking about slinging drugs can you listen to in its entity and love every one? A select few right? -James
No I did not list Nikki Minaj and this is why:
I can’t respect her as a rapper. Not only that, this past halloween was the last straw for me. Everyone was dressed up as Nikki Minaj. I would rather listen to Lil’ Kim and or Trina before I listen to her. Besides, her lyrics are sub-par. They don’t even shine a light on the old Lil’ Kim. And I’m sure both Lil’ Kim and Trina would maul her. I wish her over rated behind would just spontaneously combust right along with Lil’ Wayne. -Joshua
I would have to somewhat agree with Joshua.
Anyway, as I said before, get upset, cry, piss, pay a bill…it won’t change how people feel about music and people with a idiotic reason to actually get upset about someone’s opinion should just sit down and shut up. People don’t care what you think and neither should it matter about what they think unless you agree…if you disagree fine but no one here is “hatin” or being a “hater” because you don’t agree. If you feel someone is missing from this list then well…nothing I can do about it but allow you to voice your opinion but that’s as far as it will go.
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Its Always The Good Ones That Go
I was just reading this Cleveland Plain Dealer article on Cleveland.com about two brothers who was just walking home when some gang called the Lakeshore Boys shot and killed one of the brothers and wounded another.
Brandon Young and his younger brother knew they were in trouble when they heard the homemade rap song of the Lakeshore Boys blaring from the car that had eased up beside them.The song is the gang’s calling card. They played it just before shooting Brandon in the back Saturday, said his brother, Shaquille Perry, 16. Brandon — a senior at Early College High School at John Hay — died early Thursday.
I never understood that. Why is it the good ones that get killed and the world is left with people full of hatred and evil? If there is a God and he so-called figured that his/her/it need him up there as his/her/it’s “angel”; I would have to say God is pretty damn cruel, and selfish. The people who need to be wiped off the face of this earth are Child Molesters, Rapists, Predators and Gangs.
“Brandon shoved me and said, ‘Run,’ and I did,” Shaquille said. “I ran to the side of a house and heard two more shots and the gun clicking. Then I heard Brandon say, ‘Where’s my little brother?’ I ran over to him and saw a hole in his back.”
You will always read in an article when someone young gets killed how he/she was a good kid and that he/she never bothered anyone. Why is that? Why can’t I read about a truck load of child molesters getting stuck on a train track right as the gates go down and a few seconds before the train comes? Life isn’t fair but this is really unfair, kids with a future; life get cut short because of some stupid ass gang.
I live in Cleveland, Ohio and this is what we called “news” on a daily basis here. Most if not all news like this brings to tears to my eyes, not sad ones but angry ones. I’m so sick of this shit and no amount of change in the justice system or no matter how many law enforcement you get to patrol a dangerous neighborhood; you’re always going to hear about an innocent kid getting killed.
I don’t think I’ll be having kids. I don’t want my kids growing up knowing that all to life is to watch your back and don’t say the wrong things to the wrong people. Having to live in fear and sleep with caution because a bullet just might come whizzing through your wall wounding you.
What’s so pathetic is, recent studies showed that Cleveland, Ohio is one [top 10] of the safest cities in the nation. How did we manage to get on such a list? Cleveland, Ohio is the opposite of safe. You can’t even sit at a stop light without someone killing you and taking your vehicle for a joy-ride. Hell, you can’t walk up and down your street in any time of the day when you got people like Anthony Sowell prowling the streets, luring you into their home, just to rape you, strangle you with a cord, then burying you in the backyard or stuffing you behind a wall. Yes, all the things I just mentioned has happened in the “one of the most safest cities in the nation” here in Cleveland, Ohio; the mistake on the Lake.
“Brandon was a hardworking, dedicated student that was focused on his studies and preparing for college,” said schools spokeswoman Angela Burford. “Brandon was seeking out various universities to apply to. Brandon’s death is a sad loss for the John Hay community.”
This boy was going to be one of the good guys, but because of it he had to lose his life. I wanted to scream to those Christians who gave me such a hard time about me being an Atheist; “WHERE’S YOUR GOD NOW?!”, I really wanted to. But that wouldn’t do nobody any good. It’s just sick that they think Atheism is the reason good people die. Which is even sadder because someone has said that to me and then pointed at me and called me a murder. This boy did not deserve to die. I just cannot imagine what the mother is going through now.
“These Lakeshore Boys are a violent bunch,” he said. “I know for a fact that they have been connected to five homicides.”
I just hope they find these cowards with guns and give them life in jail. This senseless violence has to stop but I know when that day happen if it will ever happen, I’ll be dead and gone.
[Read about Brandon and his Brother Here]
