Relationships

In a relationship things are supposed to be recognized and enforced. There are some things that aren’t allowed in relationships unless said situation or means is in mutual agreement.

Friends

Friends, should only be just that. They should also respect you as well. Not only are they your friends but they also have a part in representing who you are. If your friends are dimwits and naive; they have no respect for you or anything you’re happy about in your life, that makes you just as bad. If you allow your friends to poke fun at your love life and think your girlfriend is a Xbox 360 or a bad habit when you mention ‘her’ in your Facebook statuses or Twitter then you need to look at yourself in the mirror and remove those type of friends from your life. Not only are they’re idiots, they’re not expecting anything more  from you than what you’ve been doing. Laughing along with them shows your significant other that you’re truly insecure about how they will judge your girlfriend. You’re basically saying, you rather laugh it off then get in their asses about respect. Cowards are so unattractive.

Bad Habits

Who don’t have one of those? Being in a relationship means putting in effort, and making each other happy. If your significant other finds something about you that they don’t like and its legitimate reason, you should try your best in trying to stop that habit or try doing it less around that person. Not waiting til that person is out of sight and doing it, you’re being decisive and that’s not fair to that person. Assuming that person will understand that habits are hard to break, you should just tell that person instead of hiding it. Unless that person finds that okay to do.

Best Friends

If your family and other friends believe that you and your best friend [if it's opposite sex] got something going on, then that mean the vibe between you two is wrong. You’re giving the impression that it is. Especially when that best friend isn’t your girl friend. You’re not making it clear to people and to that you’re friends and nothing more. If your friends are still saying that after knowing you’re with someone then there’s obviously something wrong with that picture. Actions are much more louder than words.

Respect

This is  one of the main critical issues in a relationship. If you cannot respect yourself, you cannot expect someone else to respect you. If you can’t respect how your significant other feels and vise versa, then you’re just wasting each others time. People get wrapped up so tight in themselves that they can’t function right and that’s not healthy in any relationship. You want respect? You have to give it, but first you have to learn how to respect yourself.

Neglect

If you’re too damn busy to even have a 5 minute conversation with your significant other, why are you with that person? If you’re allowing your family and friends to keep you from what you want to do or care about how can you get upset when your significant other find other means to keep themselves from feeling neglected? If you don’t have the balls to stand up for yourself and because of that you neglect your significant other, you deserve to be alone until you learn important life lessons. If they’re truly your family and friends, they’ll understand and they’ll love you always if not then they got some life-lessons they need to learn as well.

Communication

This one should be self-explanatory; common knowledge if you will. Communication is almost as bad as neglect when it’s not there. When you’re neglectful, you’re not communicating as often either. Again, if you’re only talking to them because you’re bored or you got a few seconds out of your life to tend to them, you should be the bigger person and let that person go. It may be sweet and commendable if the person wants to wait until you have time for them but it’s only so much waiting a person can do.

A lot of these qualities most people lack and to me they’re very unattractive. I’m well aware no one is perfect but if your life is too hectic or your friends are complete assholes or just dumb as a baby roach then why waste your time on them? I can never settle for less and if something doesn’t make me happy I speak up and if speaking don’t work, I walk away.