When It’s Time to Just Give Up…

There is a man who was dating a woman for a good 4-5 years. This woman though for a while was in love with this man and was always there for him, waiting on him to realize she would never leave him. He ignores her and treats her like shit, viewing women web-cams, online flirting with them and anything else sexual you can do online. This woman tells him time and time again that what he’s doing is wrong and its hurting her. He tries for a while but goes right back to doing what he was doing. She gets pissed for the very last time and he finally wakes up. She’s done being someone to just walk all over and she finally for the last time leaves him for good. He begs and pleads, cries even to get her to see that he was always there for her but she was the one ignoring him. It goes on for weeks and is still going on although she has moved on and found another boyfriend, although he doesn’t know she has a boyfriend. He sends her notes via Yahoo Messenger telling her that he’s never going to give up on them. She tries her damnedest with her approach to get him to realize that she no longer wants him without having to bruise his heart even further by just telling him that she has a boyfriend.

The time to give up was way before she decided to get with her new love; her soul mate but she don’t want to string her ex along thinking he has a chance when he don’t. She picked the wrong time to grow a conscience and awareness for what he might feel after hearing such terrible news. She tried telling herself that he did this to himself, he pushed her away by taking her for granted and using her. She refused to ask a zebra to change its stripes for her. She tried to deal with his annoying qualities and tried focusing on the reasons why she loved him. That technique soon failed. She tried sending him letters, notes in the past explaining thoroughly how his lifestyle was effecting her emotionally and mentally but he never listened. He always had this personality where anything that didn’t benefit him meant squat to him. She regrets ever meeting him and should of left him where she found him but she still loves him and she promised she would no matter what.

Now that this man finally realizes what and who she really was to him, he wants to be apologetic and plead to her to give them one more chance at love, but its too late. She will always love him and I’m sure he would never forget her but its time to throw in the towel, walk away, give up.