The Boyfriend with NO Complaints
Should I be concerned that the boyfriend I’ve known for 4-5 years now have no complaints about me and our relationship? He told me in a myspace message [it was a while back like way before I moved in and I barely got to see him] that he has a hard time expressing himself, mostly about his life. He basically said he don’t want to make his problems mine so he tries to avoid that as much as possible. Anyway, I’m just curious as to why I don’t get feedback on how a good or bad of a girlfriend I am. He can’t even tell me what he likes about me or why he loves me. [He don't even say those 3 words any more].
I’m starting to believe that moving in was a bad idea. There’s no time to miss each other being that me and him are both unemployed at the moment. So we’re always seeing each other. We eat, sleep, play and everything else together. But no matter how many arguments we get into or opportunities he have to tell me about me he don’t. Yes, I’ve tried asking him but he just changes the subject so I leave it alone. Maybe its just me.
Posted on December 20, 2009, in Love & Relationships and tagged asilee.com, boyfriend, Ced, girlfriend, life, relationship. Bookmark the permalink. 9 Comments.
In the very worst of times this happens but something is learnt and we move on :/
Really? Just like that?
Hmph, easier said than DONE.
if can you time travel forward then yes, that way all the “done” is done
You don’t get it…I said its easier SAID than DONE.
Fair play
Interesting post. Some guys just very reserved and are not used to sharing their thoughts or feelings. Perhaps he just hasn’t come to a point where he feels he can open up and share how he feels with you. There are a number of reason why he doesn’t open up…but only he knows the real reason.
I deserve some input…this relationship won’t last without communication. Its a bit one-sided and unfair as well.
You’re right. It is very one-sided. & communication is the root of every relationship.
Eh oh well…I’ve came to a conclusion that the only thing I can do is leave him. I don’t want to be with someone who can’t even talk to me.