I don’t know how many times I’ve been in the situation on and offline where men have to tell me that they’re not hitting on me or don’t want me or anything before they tell me what they really wanted. I have to tell them that if they did they would of said something by now so no need for them to think I’m like all the other women they approach. I’m well aware that there are men out there that are just looking for platonic relationships; nothing serious. I’m also well aware that there are men who don’t think of women as a piece of meat or some piece of eye candy for 5 minutes. I know there are men out there that chase after women non-stop just to have one-night stands or someone to know just long enough to have someone to go to the club with that Friday.

The point is ladies/ho’s/bitches/sluts/whores, if a man is approaching you, don’t get offended before the man opens his mouth. Don’t automatically think he wants you. No need to be nasty because you’re PMS‘ing. Its a shame that your head is so far up your ass you refuse to think outside of the box. For every person that find you attractive there is a possibility that there is 5 more people that find you unattractive. Its not “hatin’”, its called “preference”. Yea for most of you “women” no one can tell you shit because you know what you are and no one can tell you different. That’s good to have high self-esteem in yourself and all but just because YOU think every men is going to want you because he approached you on the fact that you think you’re the “baddest bitch” of said state/city doesn’t necessarily make it true. He could be approaching you to tell you that you got a lose track or food in between your teeth.

You’re making all of us look bad believe it or not. When men approach women and begin to talk, it always sound rehearsed and it usually is when they’re not interested in anything but being friends. I know that last part is hard to believe but there are straight men out there who only want to be friends with the opposite sex. No matter what the circumstances may be to why they are but just know that it is possible to be friends with the opposite sex. You just have to grow the hell up, get your mind out of the gutter and stop thinking with your twat. Men aren’t the only ones who fall prey to thinking with their genitals and not their brains. So as I wrap this up, no pun intended; I feel I have to repeat myself…

Just Because A Man Approachs You, It Doesn’t Always Mean He Wants You!