Are Females Really That Stupid When it Comes to Relationships?
I ask because a good friend of mine is in an abusive relationship with this guy she knew since middle school. I guess you can call them “middle school sweethearts” but there isn’t anything sweet about what she’s going through. She’s making excuses for him and letting him beat her because she loves him. She says that she know he loves her as well but I can’t. A man that beats on you and you allow them to do it don’t love you. If they’re mentally unstable for a relationship, they don’t know what love is.
That’s just one example.
Women make these dumb decisions when it come to a man that they want to be with. They look for someone with money and looks but that’s all they got to offer. They stick with this man even after they have been caught cheating. They stick with them until they decide to dump them. After they’re done crying on their couch with tears all in their Rocky Road ice cream they become these bitter females with a chip on their shoulder failing to realize it was them who that got them in that predicament in the first place.
There are plenty of men out there and women have plenty of time to find the right one. Fear of being alone can play a part into why women make these dumb decisions; self-esteem and lack of confidence as well. Only they will know why they have such hard times making good, smart decisions. They make these dumb decisions with these men, get hurt, get bitter, treat the next man like the last and then the men they scorn because of what someone else did gets bitter towards every female they meet. We get put together all in one category because females want to make dumb decisions when it comes to relationships.
Its not like they can’t see what they’re doing when they do it. Love can’t be THAT damn blinding can it? They can’t see that they’re being abused, used, and neglected? What is it about love that makes women so vulnerable that they throw away their pride and their morals; dignity as well just to know what it feels like to be in love and to be loved?
Posted on September 9, 2009, in Relationshipss and tagged abuse, life, love, relationships, women. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.
Sadly, as a woman I must say that most women are very silly and stupid when it comes to love relationships. The problem stems from the fact that women don’t know or want to bother learning how to deal with men the way men are. Instead, women deal with men the way the women think the men should be.
Sadly, some women really don’t consciously see how this is so wrong. I was in a lousy marriage for years, my family all saw it. I didn’t until after it was over and I moved out. He didn’t hit me or anything, but it was still a bad situation for the longest time.
When it gets to be physically abusive, the women will inevitably need assistance to get out and get help. Unfortunately there are too many that never make it out.
I agree with everything you said about self-esteem and making decisions, etc. It’s all very true.
Best of luck to you and your friend.