Since when was there a skin pigment/race club for the usage of the word ‘nigga‘? I honestly think that shit is truly unfair. Here they are in America but they are still slaves within their own minds. They took a demeaning word and remixed to their own. They are undoing what Sojourner Truth, Malcolm X, MLK and every other activist had stood up for. Then they get mad when someone white call them porch monkey‘s and coons but they’re using the word ‘nigga’ because they say the meaning is different. I’m sorry but most of you Blacks are full of shit. Those who get mad at people that isn’t Black who call you a nigga but can comfortably say it around other Blacks, you’re fucking idiots. Get mad all you want.
Screaming you want respect but can’t even respect yourselves. Finding everything and anything racists. I’m sorry to say this but you’re not the victims! Actually I’m not sorry, someone needs to tell you that the sun don’t rise or set on your ass. You deserve to get upset when someone outside your race calls you a nigga. You’re inviting yourself to be miserable, upset and ready to boycott. No amount of burying can the NAACP do to bury the word nigga or nigger. It hasn’t changed shit. Blacks still being the hostile, stereotypical, loud, uneducated, ghetto beings that white people expects them to be. But I know that all Blacks aren’t like this so save your speeches, your chastising, bitching and moaning for someone who don’t realize that.
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Im black, married with white woman (3 kids) and can say I dont even like being called on joking terms by my dear black friends.
HERE ARE 5 EXPLANATIONS WHY ITS OK FOR BLACKS:
1. Same reason as Eminems final show in “8 Mile”, you disarm the words hurting effects by saying it yourself.
Problem is this habit can negatively stick on you…
2. For the same reason as white women call each other Bitch, but as soon a guy calls them that…
3. The white man used that word negatively centurys ago, and as soon a whiteman uses that it reminds of the past cause some still used it that way when we were growing up!!
4.If you were caught cheating with someone, how long would it take before you dared mention that persons name in front of your partner again without hurting him/her, or avoiding misunderstanding/fight? and thats only cheating…
5.How can whites feel discriminated for not allowed to say Nigga, do you really want to be black so much??? How would it look if I cried about not getting to call women Bitches without offending, how silly is that. Its as if some whites loafs hispanics, are too afraid of jews and despites arabs – so they want to be friend with the black guy, therefore saying Nigga!!
>>Anyway, for most people its all about who says NIGGA, close white friends exceeds a stranger black.
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[...] Why Blacks can call each other “Nigga’s” but the MOMENT someone White Says it, its a damn pro… [...]
its so much easy-a 2 b a statistic…i pre-fur 2 b degr-aded by my race n otha races.
Chris I know this is your dirty work…
Why, yes…yes it is. I don’t really see the point in doing that but it brings me joy. Take that away from me and I shall smite thee.
Go to bed Chris.
NEVAR!
Okay, I mean you already sex-deprived [obviously], you mind as well add sleep depravity onto that.
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Exactly correct. Black people can call eachother “nigger” or
“nigga” but the minute someone from another race does it, it’s as if all of hell is about to break loose. And if you try to explain to that person their ignorance, your racist. I swear the ignorance of people in this world is going to be the death of it all.
Indeed.
Nigga im black. and ya’ll not. my family went thru fucking slavery. thats why i gett ta say nigga a.k.a nigger. ya’ll whiteboyz can call ya’ll selvs crackers if you want
Lmao, everyone on here isn’t white douche bag…and you don’t realize how stupid you look. I would pity you but I rather put my energy to better use.
Very valid points Lee!
I know…
They also don’t know when to shut up and listen.
Oh….
Blacks are fucking hypocrites tis all.
Ok.
Tru…tru…
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WTF?
I simply love it when people come on here with so much hostility in their blood for someone they don’t even know. I pity the fools…
im on dat sectun 8 so eyes dun kno wut eyes bees sayunz…
LMAO! Chris stop.
What? The poor bastard had it coming.
When I learn to speak English then I’ll have something people will actually take seriously, until then…I will go and see if “listin” is in the dictionary.
What a idiot.
Chopped and Screwed is your forte huh? Go get an education. I never seen someone abuse the English language that bad in a while.
I’m also a dick sucking prude because I don’t know the difference between nigger and nigga…because I prefer to be called a nigger.
--Chris the admin was here--
The lives these idiots must have has got to be hilarious!
Sir, why is that?
Why? Because look at the comments they make. These big ass paragraphs of nothing and then they have the NERVE to try and call someone stupid. They must get offended by people everyday but I doubt they’ll openly call someone stupid. That bitches balls must’a grew 10x’s their size.
Good point.
I know. She/he/it must be one of those who get offended when someone a different color than her/him/it uses either or. Dumb bitch.
I have GOT to stop sleeping so much and people have GOT to stop leaving such long, stupid ass replies that don’t get read past three words. Those three words sums up the whole response and those three words leads to the fate that reply will have. My my, all those keystrokes wasted.
PLUS! Who wants to break their scrolling finger scrolling past all those long stupid ass replies anyway? I mean the comment box is at the BOTTOM of the page. Good grief man! Have MERCY!
LMAO!
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I’m a bitch that don’t have a CLUE to what the fuck I’m talking about.
-Chris the admin was here-
Well played.
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I have to agree with you wholeheartedly on this, it blows my mind how we as people can be so angry when some one with a lighter skin tone uses that word but then use it to those we love or those we hate. Sadly i hear the word a least 10 times a day.
I do believe that many blacks dont realize the wieght of that word. I admit in the past i used that word only becuase the whole “well everyone else is doing it.” Many are just ignorant to the fact that Nigger or nigga isn’t just a word and when you use it, your hurting yourself and community even more.
Im happy someone had the balls to actually talk about it.
But also i have to disagree with you about hating your race i can understand how you can be annoyed by your race but never dislike or disown us. Just becaus the blakc you see from day in and day out are liek the way they are does not mean every black From Sierra Leone to Georgia are like that. Black people do have things to be proud of, sometimes you have to keep those things in mind. You should never be ashamed of what you are.
I think I know that all blacks aren’t like that…but that doesn’t diminish how I feel about my race. The things they do gives me no choice but to be ashamed…
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This is a very valid blog post. I’ve been baffled by coloreds for a very long time now. I never understood that either. I’m glad someone of color has the guts to stand up and speak up on this. They indeed do put themselves in those type of miserable situations. Great post Lee.
Thanks um, I’mWhite.
Asilee I can agree with this. They become so enraged and engulfed in their own animosity they DON’T realize they do it to themselves. I’ve never used the N-word and I don’t plan on doing so either. I’m a part of the solution, not the problem. Great blog Lee.
Thanks.
You need a new deck to play. Those cards you keep pulling are getting tired.
Where the hell are my admins?
I guess I can send this link to my friends and see what they think of it.
THATS CAUSE NIGGERS ARE STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh.
Oh you just shut up! You wouldn’t dare say that around ANYONE in PUBLIC!
Of course not.
I believe I agree with some of the points you made. It it is very hypocritical of black to be up in arms when someone of a different race… when a white person calls them a nigger. Especially after using the word casually and in my experience within earshot of white people. Some blacks set an example that is hard to not follow.
Now I don’t really see how taking a derogatory term and changing it a bit is a bad thing. Nigger equals violence, Nigga equals friend. I prefer to not be called either personally.
I have one question for you though. Why are you so angry about this? I am certain you have explained your stance somewhere else, but still I have to wonder. Breath in and out slowly.
No one is angry…I don’t like my race…they’re shameful. Not saying all but they annoy me. We get ridiculed, bunched up, categorized all in the same because of one bad bunch.
Nigga does not equal friend because if it did, they wouldn’t of cared who said it.
You got a point, but there is another way to look at it. Bitch is usually a highly offensive term to women, but women can and do use it as term of endearment. As long as it is said in a friendly manner it is ok for women, but if a man says it everyone starts screaming.
Both are offensive if said by the wrong person.
I don’t feel that saying either one damages the great works done by leaders in both groups. A word is a word.
A word isn’t just a word. If it was then blacks wouldn’t get so upset when someone white calls them a nigger. Or they wouldn’t get so upset at petty things like the last Resident Evil game [5]. They find petty stuff to get upset about they fail to realize they do it to themselves.
That just make them hypocrites. They can’t even see how hypocritical they look when they allow other females to call them a bitch but the moment a man walk by and say it, then they ready to pull their extensions out and kick his ass. The word “bitch” was not supposed to be a friendly greeting on any circumstances. Blacks just use what they got and make the best out of it, no matter how ridiculously hypocritical they look. They have no shame.
I think that you make some good points but I wonder. I feel that if you are ashamed of your race there is something about yourself you don’t like. I am black like you, but I choose to educate our children so that they can be better. You talk the talk but walk the walk, don’t just criticize but what are you doing to make blacks look better? We have a moral obligation to help one another. You don’t see whites or latinos with a site like this criticizing their race. Uplift, don’t tear down. You seem to be a well- educated person so why not put it to good use.
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Okay mother goose, put your book away and step away from the computer. Blogs are called blogs for a reason and if you can’t seem to get the gist of that then you need to stop reading them…especially mines.
Wow @ this joke, this character, this dunce! Go find a pulpit preacher tom. No one cares. You agree but only to find things to disagree on…your comment is also full of fail.
I’m glad I’m the one that promised to be nice today.
LAWL!
I mean if he can’t answer the question fine but to say that? Come on I’ve seen better rebuttals from a blind deaf-mute.
Good blog Lee.,, I always wondered that my damn-self.,,,
Yea, thanks.
You’re absolutely right Asilee. Its time someone BLACK not someone WHITE actually address this situation at face value. You have every right to be annoyed because I’M BLACK and I’M ANNOYED.
Whatever, I can’t even take you seriously cause it seems you have the attention span of a hot comb.
that was funny
I knew someone was gone read this and TRY and make it seem like I’m the one wrong…bullshit. If I can’t speak my mind, then who will?
I honestly don’t think you should feel wrong..or not say how you feel. If thats how you feel. Then..ok. I can’t tell you what you are supposed to say and do you your blog. But what I CAN do..is respond and disagree with whatever the hell you say.
With that..i say…
I am a black person. And I have a problem with ANYONE using that word. Period. I wish you would say SOME black people annoy you. I know you say you don’t think ALL black people are like that, but it just comes off that you ALWAYS have problems with blacks. Like theres no other races on earth. Just stating my opinion..not trying to be a self-righteous prick. I actually have been enjoying your blog for some time and I actually agree with SOME of the things you say. I just get a little annoyed when the focus always goes directly onto black people.
“Like theres no other races on earth.”
Can’t talk about other races I’m not surrounded by 24/7.
Your debate is flawed and people who feel they have to pull that “other race” card need to step away from
the computer IMMEDIATELY and get a new deck of cards to play. That rebuttal NO that EXCUSE is getting tired. I’m black if you
haven’t noticed and I don’t really care what you’re tired of, life don’t un-stress your emotions because you’re “tired” of something,
nothing you can do about it but read my blogs and get upset. Thanks for liking them but I speak my mind and I speak on what I see.
Only the naive sit and talk about races they haven’t been around EVER. I can’t speak on what I don’t know. Or did something in life make
that possible?
I’m not reading your blog and getting upset. lol I just had an opinion and stated it. Just because you seem to be constantly around a bunch of “ghetto” black people doesn’t mean that you have anything to support your arguments. No one is saying..none of the stuff you talk about doesn’t happen. Or let’s just focus on other races you don’t know anything about. But you don’t know everything about black people either. Yet you come on here bitchin about them every other entry.
I understand that you don’t agree. But you seem to go on attack mode when someone disagrees with you. Like i said before…i actually agreed with SOME of the things you say. I just felt like i wanted to say something about it. Period. I haven’t come at you all bitchy and aggressive, but you chose to do so. Get a grip chick.
Blah your opinion sir. That’s all I need to say about it. Others will finish all of what I was going to say. Maybe…probably…I’m through wasting my time debating with someone with a flawed argument.
u made a typo lee.
Yea, I saw that.
like ASILEE SAID…ur argument is FLAWED….,,,, PLSZ SHUT UP!
Lmao @ your opinion being flawed and invalid. When you become black, pls let us all know.
Ashley, you don’t read….
You’re stupid and you wouldn’t understand bcuz you hang around whitez allday.
Really, was that EVEN necessary? People like you kill me assuming shit about someone, just based on what they say alone.
Yea, that was totally unnecessary but the said person is wrong though.
I know.