Riddle Me This: Why Love Your Haters? I Mean, They Hate You Right?

I never understood this, “Keep on hatin’ haterz I luv my haterz.” CRAP. I mean why love someone who hates you? I mean is this some cruel joke or just bad sarcasm? Or a poor sign that they don’t care? Either way its ass backwards.

9/10 people with all of these “haterz” don’t really have any. For example, a person ask someone for advice or for their opinion, they get their answer/opinion and if they don’t like it they call them a hater. Oh come on, you asked for an opinion and you got one. How in the hell is that considered hating? You got what you asked for but you didn’t like it so they’re considered a hater because you didn’t like what you heard?

No way in hell would I be sitting there getting mad at someone’s criticism and call it hating; especially if I asked for it. People throw the word hater around so much that they’re totally delusional to what a real hater is. Well, I’m going to list a few definitions of the word hater:

• Hater
  Hat”er\, n. One who hates. An enemy to God, and a hater of all good. [Dictionary.com]
• A person who feels anger and/or jealousy for someone who has succeeded in something they have worked hard for.
  A being who speaks badly,and/or takes negative actions in attempt to create problems for a successful person. [UrbanDictionary.com]

There was also one in there on Urban Dictionary that described the exact type of hater I was giving an example for.

• Hater

• Overused word that people like to use just because someone else expresses a dislike for a certain person. [UrbanDictionary.com]

I was called a hater once for saying I don’t like Gucci Mane, Plies, Soulja Boy, and Lil’ Wayne. They were saying, “well you can hate all you want, he still making money“. So the hell what, money isn’t going to make his music sound any better to me. His money doesn’t have nothing to do with me. & as far as hating is concerned, he don’t have anything that I would want or need. I don’t want to be him, do him etc. That shouldn’t make you lose any sleep at night because people don’t like these lame rappers.

Anyway, you paranoid people who have all these haters that you love, can you tell me exactly what you mean by loving your haters? Cause if you truly love them that’s pretty messed up. I believe you’re only saying that because they’re actually getting to you so you try to use that as a cop-out.  Most of you don’t have haters and you don’t love them, you hate them as much as they hate you. That’s if you even have them invisible haters. That’s the most dumbest crap I’ve ever heard in my life. That’s worse than fat women being motivated by negative comments about their weight so for every comment that’s negative they decide to get bigger cause that’s what’s motivating them. Find what planet that makes sense on because it sure as hell isn’t earth.

You’re mentally ill if you worry about how many haters you have and love. I bet I’ll be called a hater, a bitch, a lame, everything under sun besides the kitchen sink just because I’ve called people out on their stupidity. I for one can say I don’t even know if I have haters or not because I don’t pay attention to that nonsense. I can waste my energy on something else besides loving someone who hates me.