Me bitter? Nah…
This blog is going to be short. I don’t normally make short blogs but hell its time to try something new for once.
Anyway, its seems like its a law of their own [men] that women automatically become bitter when we are dumped. Well some of us are relieved because most of the time we want to break-up with you but don’t know how to go about it. Your timing most of the time couldn’t be more impeccable. I know that’s crazy and somewhat harsh to say but its true. Even though you [men] feel that we’re going to be bitter and treat the next man like shit doesn’t make it true. I’m not talking to the women that do become bitter, I’m only talking for the ones that don’t. To most of us, you doing the breaking up is doing us a favor without actually asking you to do it.
It feels as if a weight has been lifted when you do the breaking up. We aren’t bitter we’re either are going to find someone new or stay single for a while. Half of the time when you break up with us; even though we wanted to break up with you, you’re the reason to why we are relieved. Its like you knew we knew you were annoying, jealous, over-protective, gay and decided to break up with us. Sometimes a man has this mentality when it comes to how we act when we first meet them to how we act after a while. They’ll have this, dump-her-before-she-dumb-me shit going on with with them. I call that insecurity and cowardice. I find a man not confronting his battles but running from them and avoiding them a coward and pathetic. These childish acts show that they may have a man’s body but they have a mind of a 12 yr old.
Anyway, this isn’t about them its about, well hell it is about them but not about that subject. Its about them thinking that we all are bitter when someone breaks up with us. This goes for the men who is trying to get to know a woman better and they automatically think they’re bitter the moment they ask about her past relationships before they even get an answer.
Woman who treat their next boyfriend like their last one cause of what he did isn’t a woman but a child seeking revenge with the wrong man. I call them childish because instead of realizing that this guy didn’t do shit to deserve that they rather have their guards up and be a bitch about everything. That leads to misery and depression, but they only have themselves to blame for that most of the time.
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Posted on February 24, 2009, in Men Issues, Women Issues and tagged bitterness, break-ups, ex boyfriend, life, relationships. Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.
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