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Being black is no walk in the park. Its real hard being a black woman, being a statistic in the eyes of a black man is crazy too. Also being catergorized in the same damn category as ho’s bitches, sluts, whores. The smart, intelligent, independent woman don’t exist in most mens minds any more due to the fact of these ho’s sluts, whores. We get judged quicker than the person who is doing the judging can blink. In today’s society, if you’re a black woman, either you’re smart or dumb. You live in the ghetto or the burbs, you’re broke or you’re poor. The color of our skin plays a big part in what people sum up their assumptions about us. I’m not talking about the white man, I’m talking about the black man. They’ve been hurt, they’ve been scorned and some of them are simple-minded. They get like females sometimes, they get hurt and swear that all females are the same. Yet they’re mad at us for thinking all men are the same. Isn’t that a bit contradictive if you ask me? Do they not know what they’re doing? Then when it comes to these videos I’ve been seeing on tv. Degrading women as whores, and bitches. & the women who do it.  All for some damn money. Has it gotten that bad? Here in cleveland, Ohio, and as well all over the U.S. The black man has to steal and kill to make a living cause they make it so hard for them to get a decent job. A white man can have 40 felonies and get a job no problem, let a black man come in there with less felonies and they’ll have a problem getting a job. Yea the black man has it rough as hell. Being black period is rough. Men are quick to tell us women we don’t know what WE want when they can’t stand there and tell us what THEY want.

Black men go around “I can’t stand bitches”. Well stop going around surrounding yourself with “bitches”…or whatever, find something that’s the opposite of your definition of a “bitch“. Also don’t get mad if you see a black woman with a white man. Interracial relationships have been going on for decades/centuries. GET OVER IT! There is nothing YOU can do about it but accept it and move on. It’s more black women out there for YOU. Just like women, so what that he’s with a white woman. Blacks have each other to blame for each other parting ways when it comes to being someone of a different race. You push your own damn race to try something different. I don’t really see a problem with it. All I see is someone with lighter hair and lighter skin than me. They still breathe and walk the same way I do. You are the controller of you. No one told you to do the things you do or act the way you act. You are who you are.

Either way the fabric is cut, it’s still cut from the same fabric regardless what color it is; it’s still fabric. Some of you need to seriously get over yourselves. Stand in front of a mirror and point the finger. I’m not perfect, you’re not perfect. No one is. Being what the white man expect us to be isn’t making things better. They want us to kill each other. You guys are doing exactly what they want you to do. They came up with welfare just for us. Even though they were on it before we were, they made sure they got it in the black community. You are a product of you’re own enviroment.

Media, plays a big role in the black community.You watch these videos on BET and just run with it. Have your own damn mind for once. Grills, rims, loud stereo systems? For what? What you gone do with that when you get old, sell it? That’s all you CAN do with it. These females see these women on tv degrading themselves for money and figure they can do it too. Also this “wifey material” crap, if you can’t boil water and you’re under 18, you’re not “wifey material” sweetie. You may think so but I know so. A man isn’t gone want a woman who cannot cook. You’re walking around, in your moms house, no job, no car, just got in high-school and already been through just about every boy in there, but you swear you’re “wifey material”. This goes for them grown girls too. I can’t call all you females women cause half of you females are children. You women 20 and up and sitting on your asses not doing anything but looking at four walls all day and letting men come in and out of your life like air comes in and out of your lungs aren’t “wifey material” either. Once again, I blame the media for this. You rather fight for a poor city or either defend for a city that’s poor and in the slums, or complain and bitch and moan about the city that’s messed up instead of doing something about the it. You rather let it be more trashed and more messed up.

Wake up people. Even though this isn’t going to change anything but I just had to get that out of there.