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This is an OLDER blog of mine done back in May of this year. I might edit it later on today, I might not. This is also a rant about females in general too. Some are a disgrace to the female race, its so shameful.

[Leave your feelings at the door]

Okay, this is going to take a lot of thinking and more than just a few minutes to type like a few of my blogs.

Anyway, being black is no walk in the park. Even though I’m mixed, White, Indian & Black. In the eyes of the white man, I am black. Its real hard being a black woman, being a statistic in the eyes of a black man is crazy too. Also being catergorized in the same damn category as ho’s bitches, sluts, whores. The smart, intelligent, independent woman doesn’t exist in most mens minds any more due to the fact of these ho’s sluts, whores. We get judged quicker than the person who is doing the judging can blink. In today’s society, if you’re a black woman, you’re are expected a lot of other races. Meaning, either you’re smart or dumb. You live in the ghetto or the burbs, you’re broke or you’re poor. The color of our skin plays a big part in what people sum up their assumptions about us. I’m not talking about the white man, I’m talking about the black man. They’ve been hurt, they’ve been scorned and some of them are simple-minded. They get like females sometimes, they get hurt and swear that all females are the same. Yet they’re mad at us for thinking all men are the same. Isn’t that a bit contradictive if you ask me? Do they not know what they’re doing? Then when it comes to these videos I’ve been seeing on tv. Degrading us women as whores, and bitches. & the women who do it, the fuck wrong with them? All for some damn money? Has it gotten that bad? Here in cleveland, Ohio, and as well all over the U.S. The black man has to steal and kill to make a living cause they make it so hard for them to get a decent ass job. A white man can have 40 felonies and get a job no problem, let a black man come in there with less felonies and have a damn problem getting a job. Yea the black man has it rough as hell. Being black period is rough. Men are quick to tell us women we don’t know what WE want when they can’t stand there and tell us what THEY want.

Yet black men goes around “I can’t stand bitches“. Well stop going around surrounding yourself with “bitches“…or whatever, find something that’s the opposite of your definition of a “bitch“. Also don’t get mad if you see a black woman with a white man. This interracial bullshit has been going on for decades/centuries and shit. GET OVER IT! There is nothing YOU can do about it but accept it or move on. Its more black women out there for YOU. Just like women, so what that he’s with a white woman. Both African American genders have each other to blame for each other parting ways when it comes to being someone of a different race. You push your own damn race to try something different. I don’t really see a problem with it. All I see is someone with lighter hair and lighter skin than me. They still breathe and walk the same way I do. You got a problem with men dating other races…there is nothing you can do about that. You are the controller of you. No one told you to do the things you do or act the way you act. You are who you are. Don’t change for no man. Just like you men don’t change for no woman, all cause they don’t agree with your personality. Fuck em.

Anyway, either way the fabric is cut, its still gone come out cut from the same fabric regardless what color it is…its still fabric. Some of you need to seriously get over yourselves. Stand in front of a mirror and point the finger. I’m not perfect, you’re not perfect. No one is. Being what the white man expect us to be isn’t making shit better. They want us to kill each other. You guys are doing exactly what they want you to do. They came up with welfare just for us. Even though they were on it before we were, they made sure they got it in the black community. You are a product of you’re own imagination. Your own quality, you are what you eat.

Media, plays a big role in the black community, you watch these videos and shit on BET and just run with it. Have your own damn mind for once. Grills, rims, loud stereo systems? For what? What you gone do with that shit when you get old as hell, sell it? That’s all you CAN do with it. These females see these women on tv degrading themselves for money and shit and figure they can do the shit too. Also this “wifey” material shit, if you can’t boil water and you’re under 18, you’re not “wifey” material sweetie. You may think so but I know so. A man isn’t gone want a woman who cannot cook, unless he’s a bum and live in section 8 housing. You’re walking around, in your moms house, no job, no car, just fresh in high-school. Been through just about every boy in high school but you swear you’re “wifey” material. This goes for them grown girls too. I can’t call all you females women cause half of you females are children. You women 20 and up and sitting on your asses not doing shit but looking at four walls all day and letting men come in and out of your life like air comes in and out of your lungs aren’t “wifey” material either. Once again, I blame the media for this bullshit. Besides the Mexicans, we are the saddest race in this Country, believe it or not. You rather fight for a poor ass city or either defend for a city that’s poor and in the slums, or complain and bitch and moan about the city that’s fucked up instead of doing something about the shit. You rather let it be more shitty and more fucked up.

Wake the fuck up people. Even though this isn’t going to change anything but I just had to get that out of there. 9/10 this blog will become longer with more things that I will add on to it, but until then, this is enough for the time being. Knowing most blacks hate reading from what  I’ve heard.

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