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Y’all get to crying about how men are all the same and haven’t been with all the men to justify such a vague accusation. Chill out, take a chill pill and relax. Its usually the ‘youngin’s’ who are so quick to ‘fall in love’ that they end up getting hurt but its grown ass women out there who think all men are the same too. I can understand you’ve been hurt and all and it hasn’t been the first or the 5th time but sit and think, think of the characteristics of all of your relationships. Are they the same or different? If they are the same then there you go. You’re dealing with the same men that got you bitter. Don’t blame that all on the men even though they can cry, bitch and moan about all females being the same too but that’s not this blog. They have nothing do to with who you tolerate in your life. No one is making you stay with him because you feel that you should or that you feel that he’s the only one that can do things for you. Get up and do things for yourself, no one is making you be a dead beat broad. No one is telling you that you have to like dead beat guys. Neither is no one telling you to cry about getting hurt yourself once again. Half the time you bitter broads do it to yourselves. Half the time its you bitter broads who make the men how they are now. Got them thinking all females are the same when they aren’t. Some of you broads got this cycle of bitterness going around and around and around and no one has the balls or the effort to stop the it cause you’re too damn lazy to.

I hear broads screaming and hollering about men being all the same. I seriously think it’s an excuse to cry out for attention. Yea that’s why you turn around and be crying once again about men being the same cause some of you allowing the same type of men in your lives. Stop blaming the reason why mean are all the same because they want white women. That is not the case, no one is telling you to date within your own race. You’re limiting yourself just so you can have something to bitch about. Men come dime a dozen but that don’t mean all 12 have to be the same.

If you feel that men are all the same chose your pick, switch up your options. Since getting hurt and running to the same sex is a ‘trend’ now, feel free to exercise your options. I mean that goes for men too, if you feel females are all the same, why not go gay? Or just don’t deal with females at all? I mean if they are all the same and you just broke up with a plain Jane, why are you in another relationship crying about the same thing? Its too much unnecessary bitching going around especially when its just a bruised, battered, overused opinion.

It’s sad when I talk to a guy and they already got their guard up reassuring me that they’re not trying to ‘holla’ at me; just saying hi. Listen, what is wrong with y’all? Why are y’all so gassed up when a dude says hi like he immediately wants to ‘holla’? Or when he isn’t good looking enough for you and he speaks, you don’t say anything at all? Why when you stuck-up females DO speak its out the side of your neck? These respectable guys are turning because you feel all guys are the same. You don’t want a man who is nice and respects you, you want that same ole guy that trashes you and sits you on the side to put the next broad in line. You hurt yourself cause when that good guy comes along what do you do? You mess him over and that’s when the “dudes/bitches ain’t shit” cycle begins. If you’re going to be apart of the problem, don’t bitch, moan or cry for a solution. Look in the mirror fool you ARE the solution.