Comments on: Why even bother?

By: Lee

Lee — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 02:27:34 +0000

By: Shawn

Shawn — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 01:02:43 +0000

You are right Lewis, I would love to have a woman like Lee or to even meet Lee would be nice. Communication is the most important in any relationship, especially a deep relationship between lovers.

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By: lisodene

lisodene — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 10:30:30 +0000

Communication is important for any relationship, but if the other person does not want to listen,then its just a waste of time. If he really love you he listens,because he cares about what you saying but if he doesnt listen he does give a damn about you. And may be its time for you move on.

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By: Lewis

Lewis — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 02:32:10 +0000

wow I didnt mean to take over your page , lol , oh and you dont know me as Lewis but you do know me as Lewis , but you definitely can call me Lewis and we can still make beautiful graphiqz together if he doesnt get his act together , your pretty deep and got dammm I’m a sucker for a talented women that has alot of love in her and really wants to be love , shiiid I want the samething . UMM did I just put my bid in , ummm not really , lol , but I think that It’s important for you to know that alot of guys would love to have a women with all that love in her and your very pretty , judging from the 1 or 2 black n whit pictures I’ve seen of you anyway ummm the world aint ready for you to leave I myself bairly know you but I would be deeply effected if anything was to happen to you . So cheer up do I like have to come there and like give you a hug cause I will . I will cut your picture out in the shape of a heart and like tape it to my chest

By: Lewis

Lewis — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 02:11:37 +0000

I’m always amazed every time I read anything that you have written . You always write with such emotion . Well since I’m a guy I will first give you some insight as to some of the difference in male and female . Yes were from the same planet but were so different in the way we think at different times in our life . First off we take many more years to grow and mature compared to women , shiid like we really dont grow up till about mid 30′s therefore since we take so long to figure out what we want and who we want we dont really know how to care or love like some women might need us to . I had a girlfriend who i met when she was like 19 i was 25 . I was married when I met her but I have to say I knew that I wanted her the first 15 minutes we were together . We were togethe 7 years . But during those 7years I learn alot about women and watching them grow . I may have learn more about myself durring that time periond also . Even though I love the hell out of her and did alot of the big things and little things in a relationship . I could have paid more attention to her emotional needs . She didn’t have the ruffest childhood but her father leaving the family and not ever speaking to her , had a very big impact on her state of emotion . She would have a friend of the family track down his wareabouts from various states periodicly and he would not only not talk to her but he would move again to a different state to avoid her and her brothers , but anyway it had a big impact on her . My point is that she would feel like when she talk to me she would feel like I was always correcting her and that I thought I new everything . I would listen to her and no matter how I put it , it always came out as if i knew it all . I love her I would only be tring to help . when I look back at it and when we talk now about our past relationship she has to admit that I was very caring , loving , everyday but emotionally we were in two different state of mind . Let me say this to clearify . Wome are goverened by there emotion early in life and maybe thereafter . Men are goverened by sex , we are very visual . Everything we do it is mostly to obtain sex or hell just have beautiful women around us , also we want what we cant have . When I think about my past relationships there are a few that I say damm why didnt I keep her she really loved me . We live and we learn . I could go on for hours on the subject of men and women and relationships . I dont know if this helps exspecially since I feel that I would have to really go deeper and do alot of typing to exspress my opion that I’m tring to convey . I didnt really want to go on and on for fear that you would not even read it , lol , . Oh and yeah I’m mister nice guy so I know exactly what you mean when you say this nice shit dont get you anywhere . I too thought that if i just continue to be me that it will work it’s self out . Ummm in this world the real world you just get worked over being the nice guy and played , but its kinda hard to complain because god does give you a couple nice people that come your way and we never want them as much as the one that treats you bad . We want what we cant have .

By: Diana Rupert

Diana Rupert — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 05:26:10 +0000

Communication is important in any relationship. Why talk if he’s not going to understand? In my experienced, I talked to be understand. He may not understand what you said in the time you were talking. But for sure he gonna think of what you said after you talked or after a few days.